In Philadelphia, senior citizens experience a higher poverty rate than their peers in many other parts of the country. Many of these are women raising young children because their birth parents are deceased, incarcerated, ill, or substance addicts. However, many of these caretakers don’t have legal custody so their intervention on behalf of these children is at risk.
The SeniorLAW Center was established in 1978 with the mission of seeking justice for older people by using the power of the law, educating the community, and advocating on the local, state and national levels. Its goal is to transform lives by emboldening older people with resources and representation to help them be seen, heard, understood, and protected.
So why did the Giving Circle give a grant to the SeniorLAW Center in 2019 when it’s mission is to improve the lives of women and children in Philadelphia? Here’s why.
It’s a common theme that grandparents have to get involved when circumstances prevent their daughter, who is often a single parent, from properly caring for her children. This could be because of substance abuse, incarceration, mental health issues, or general poverty and unhealthy living conditions. If the grandparents are helping out, they have no legal standing to make sure the child is enrolled in school or getting the proper medical care. They also have no protection if an unfit parent returns and tries to take the children back.
The SeniorLAW Center is able to help these caring grandparents get sole legal physical custody of these children so they are able to live in the safe environment they deserve. The process is lengthy. It can take months – and even longer due to COVID backlog – to get a final decree. Children may have to meet with a judge to tell their story and while they are assured of privacy and encouraged to speak their truth, this can put additional strain on them. They are young and living in traumatic circumstances so all of this uncertainty takes its toll.
The good news is that if this is accomplished, the child can find a great deal of relief in the stability and consistency of their grandparent’s home. They can rely on being enrolled in school, of living in a more healthy environment and having access to medical care to address their own physical and mental health issues. This formalized custody can also clarify the boundaries of the child’s relationship with their parents which may continue to be challenging.
Research shows that children flourish in the care of nurturing relatives, godparents, stepparents or any adult who has a kinship bond with the child. They do better in school, have fewer behavioral issues, and more frequently report “feeling loved.” The SeniorLAW Center, which is primarily funded by public and private grants, including foundations, corporate and law firm sponsors and individuals, is in the business of bringing this stability into the lives of children. And this is why the Giving Circle chose them as their 2019 grantee.
For more information on the SeniorLAW Center, click here.
contributed by Susan Collins